Do you remember the exact moment you first became interested
in personal development? I certainly do. It happened in January 1991
while I was sitting in a jail cell. I'd just been arrested for felony grand
theft. This wasn't my first run-in with the law, so I knew was in trouble.
I was 19 years old.
I began stealing shortly after moving to Berkeley, California, during my first semester at UC Berkeley. I didn't steal for money or to
build a reputation-I stole for the thrill. I was addicted to the surge
of adrenaline. The compulsion to steal was so strong that shoplifting
was part of my routine, nothing more than my daily espresso. Usually I
didn't care what I stole; it was the act of stealing that seduced me. On
a typical outing, I'd lift a dozen candy bars and then drop them off in
a public place, figuring that other people would eat them. I didn't eat
the candy because I didn't think it was healthy.
As I sat in jail for several days that January with nothing to do but
wallow in my own stupidity, the reality of my situation came crashing
down upon me. In high school I'd been a straight-A honors student,
president of the math club, and captain of the Academic Decathlon
team. My future as a computer-science major looked unbelievably
bright, but somehow I'd torn it to shreds. Now I was expecting to
spend the next year or two behind bars.